Depression: Signs and First Steps to Take
Last updated September 10, 2026.
Depression shows up as persistent sadness, loss of interest in things you used to enjoy, or both, lasting two weeks or longer. It often brings changes in sleep, appetite, energy, and concentration. The first step is recognizing the pattern, then reaching out for a screening and connecting with care that fits your situation and budget.
The two-week rule and what it means
Clinical depression is not just a bad day or a rough week. Mental health professionals look for symptoms that persist most of the day, nearly every day, for at least two weeks. The core signs are feeling sad, empty, or hopeless, or losing interest and pleasure in activities that used to matter to you.
Other common symptoms include changes in sleep (too much or too little), appetite shifts, fatigue, trouble concentrating, feelings of worthlessness or excessive guilt, restlessness or slowed movement, and recurring thoughts of death or suicide. You do not need all of these to meet criteria for depression, but the pattern needs to interfere with your daily life.
If you notice this two-week threshold in yourself or someone close to you, it is time to take it seriously. Depression is a medical condition with effective treatments, not a character flaw or something you can simply will away.
PHQ-9: the standard screening tool
Most primary care doctors and mental health providers use a short questionnaire called the PHQ-9 (Patient Health Questionnaire) to screen for depression. It asks nine questions about symptoms over the past two weeks, scored from zero (not at all) to three (nearly every day). Your total score helps determine severity: 5 to 9 is mild, 10 to 14 moderate, 15 to 19 moderately severe, and 20 to 27 severe.
You can find the PHQ-9 online and take it yourself as a starting point, but the score is not a diagnosis. A clinician uses the result along with a conversation to decide next steps. Many community health centers and therapists will walk you through the PHQ-9 at your first visit.
The screening takes less than five minutes and gives you and your provider a shared language for tracking symptoms over time. If you score in the moderate range or higher, treatment is typically recommended.
Therapy, medication, or both
Treatment for depression usually involves psychotherapy, antidepressant medication, or a combination. Evidence supports both approaches, and the choice depends on severity, your preferences, past experience, and what is accessible to you.
Psychotherapy, especially cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and interpersonal therapy, helps you identify and change thought patterns and behaviors that sustain depression. Sessions are typically once a week for 12 to 20 weeks, though some people continue longer. Therapy works well for mild to moderate depression and for people who prefer not to take medication.
Antidepressants, most commonly SSRIs like sertraline or escitalopram, adjust brain chemistry and usually take four to six weeks to show full effect. They are often recommended for moderate to severe depression or when therapy alone has not been enough. Many people do best with both therapy and medication, especially in the beginning.
If one medication or therapy approach does not help after a reasonable trial (usually 8 to 12 weeks), switching or combining treatments is common. Depression treatment is not one-size-fits-all, and finding what works can take some adjustment.
Where to start: primary care, community health, and online options
Your primary care doctor is often the easiest first stop. Most can screen for depression, prescribe medication, and refer you to a therapist. If you do not have a regular doctor, federally qualified health centers (FQHCs) offer primary care and mental health services on a sliding fee scale based on income. Find one near you at findahealthcenter.hrsa.gov.
Community mental health centers also provide therapy and psychiatric care on sliding scales, often with shorter wait times than private practices. Your county or state mental health authority can point you to local centers. Nonprofit clinics affiliated with universities or religious organizations sometimes offer low-cost counseling.
Online therapy platforms like BetterHelp or Talkspace match you with a licensed therapist for weekly sessions by video, phone, or messaging, typically for $250 to $400 per month. Some accept insurance. Telehealth psychiatry services can prescribe medication remotely, which is useful if local psychiatric care has long waits.
If you have insurance, check your plan's mental health network and copays. The Mental Health Parity Act requires insurers to cover mental health similarly to physical health, but finding in-network providers can still be difficult. Your insurer's member services line or website should have a searchable directory.
Costs and insurance coverage
Therapy typically costs $100 to $250 per session without insurance, though sliding-scale clinics may charge $20 to $60 based on income. With insurance, copays range from zero to $50 per session, depending on your plan. Many insurers cover 20 to 50 sessions per year for outpatient mental health.
Antidepressants are generally inexpensive. Generic SSRIs like fluoxetine or sertraline cost $4 to $20 per month without insurance. Even with insurance, generics are often cheaper than your copay. Psychiatrist visits to manage medication run $200 to $400 for an initial evaluation and $100 to $200 for follow-ups, with copays typically $20 to $60.
If you are uninsured, ask about sliding-scale fees at community health centers and nonprofit clinics. Some therapists in private practice reserve a few sliding-scale slots. Patient assistance programs from drug manufacturers can provide free or reduced-cost medication if you meet income criteria.
Medicaid covers mental health services with little or no cost-sharing in most states. If your income is low and you are not currently enrolled, check eligibility at healthcare.gov or your state Medicaid website. Open enrollment for Marketplace plans runs November through mid-January each year, though special enrollment is possible after certain life events.
When to call 988 or go to the ER
If you are thinking about suicide or harming yourself, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. Trained counselors are available 24/7, the call is free and confidential, and they can help you get through a crisis and connect you to local resources. You can also chat online at 988lifeline.org.
Go to the nearest emergency room or call 911 if you have a specific plan to harm yourself, have access to means, or feel you cannot stay safe. Hospital ERs have psychiatric staff or on-call psychiatrists who can evaluate you and arrange inpatient care if needed. Most insurance plans cover emergency mental health visits the same way they cover other emergencies.
Crisis stabilization units and psychiatric urgent care centers, available in some cities, offer a middle option between outpatient care and full hospitalization. These facilities can assess and manage acute symptoms without an ER visit. Call 211 or check with your county mental health authority to find out if crisis services are available near you.
Common questions
How do I know if I am just sad or actually depressed?
Sadness from a specific event usually fades within days to a week or two. Depression involves persistent sadness or loss of interest nearly every day for at least two weeks, along with other symptoms like sleep or appetite changes, fatigue, and trouble concentrating. If the feelings interfere with work, relationships, or daily routines and do not lift, it is worth getting screened by a provider.
Can I start with therapy instead of medication?
Yes. For mild to moderate depression, psychotherapy alone is often effective. Cognitive behavioral therapy and interpersonal therapy both have strong evidence. Medication is more commonly recommended for moderate to severe depression or when therapy has not been enough. Many people try therapy first and add medication later if needed.
What if I cannot afford a therapist?
Community mental health centers and federally qualified health centers offer therapy on a sliding fee scale based on income, sometimes as low as $20 per session. Some nonprofit clinics and university training programs provide low-cost counseling. If you have Medicaid, mental health services are covered with little or no copay. Call 211 to find local resources.
How long does it take for antidepressants to work?
Most antidepressants take four to six weeks to show their full effect, though some people notice improvement in sleep or energy within the first two weeks. If you do not feel better after 8 to 12 weeks, your doctor may adjust the dose or try a different medication. It is important to keep taking the medication as prescribed even if you do not see immediate changes.
When should I call 988 instead of waiting for an appointment?
Call or text 988 if you are thinking about suicide, have a plan to harm yourself, or feel you cannot stay safe until your next appointment. The Suicide and Crisis Lifeline is available 24/7, free and confidential, and counselors can help you through a crisis and connect you to immediate support. You can also chat online at 988lifeline.org.
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